Remarks about the value of HOPE

Scholars, unanimously agree that hope is a highly desired, optimistic state of mind, based on which one could expect positive outcomes, relating to different life events or circumstances; basically, an amazing life force that keeps us going. 

Hope is incredibly important in life, as it could influence positively health and happiness, as well as success. For instance, having hope could make a difficult situation be more bearable and eventually assist with envisioning a better future; in essence, such approach could motivate people to take necessary steps to the right direction and make good things happen. Implicitly, this leads to optimism, and extensive research studies show that optimistic people are more likely to live gratifying lives, with less stress and more enjoyable experiences.

Without exaggerating, we could safely state that hope is that beautiful feeling of trust and some sort of security, an inspiring reason which keeps people going, an ardent wish of the heart, a feeling of exciting expectation, as well as a candid desire for something specific to happen. 
But, how do we really find and maintain hope, given that more often than not, people are facing all sorts of challenging and disruptive life related situations?
Psychologists believe that in order to find hope, it is important to follow a number of specific steps, such as:

- finding a clear path in life (like knowing clearly what do you want to do with your life)
- do what you know you can do best (like finding and using your talents in appropriate circumstances) 
- each time you can, perform random acts of kindness

Aside of that, here are few thoughts on how someone could maintain hope:
- when you feel weak and disoriented, turn toward your family or a trusted friend, who could restore your positivity
- embrace your faith
- remind yourself, lovingly, that you do the best that you can, with the available tools that you have 
- continue to take good care of yourself, in a non-judgmental manner

Definitively, we could say that the power of hope is tremendous, but it is also equally important to realize when a particular situation is really hopeless, so you could re-organize yourself appropriately in order to avoid further regrets.

Whether we deliberately think about it or not, hope is a valuable part of everyday life, and everyone, regardless of age, at one point in time, had hoped for something.
As I wrap up my comments here, I would like to encourage everyone to continue to be helpful and hopeful toward one another, because such a positive attitude might enrich someone's life, including yours.
                    "When the world says, give up - hope whispers, try it one more time!" 

 

August 2020: Summer talks

  Summer related conversations with few Romanian friends (locals & around the world)

As this unusual summer is slowly coming to an end, on Friday (August 28'20) I was very happy to be able to organize a video-conference with few available friends, discussing several facets of the current season, as well as personal experiences, impressions, revelations, unique situations, personal journals, poems (own or loved), and different concise writings suitable for the moment.

On the other hand, given that officially the entire world is still operating under the rigors of the ongoing pandemic, when many restrictions on group meetings continue to be in place, I am calling for this responsible way, using again technology to relate with each other.

Further, I'm so grateful to share that my circle is expanding, making the emerging talks even more interesting and relevant. Definitively, there is a lot to be grateful for! Aside of that, for this very gathering, few Romanian friends from other parts of the world joined us (even from Romania), making the entire audience feel that physical distance is not really an issue, which I find truly beautiful.

So, on Friday evening, until everybody settled in, I offered the group a fairly brief classical music fragment, called "Concerto No. 21", by Wolfgang A. Mozart.
Further, after all personal introductions concluded, the program continued with a number of presentations - poems (personal compositions & from universal literature), travel journals, a song (personal composition), reflections, statements, as well as few personal perspectives about literature (in general), smoothly braided with genuine questions, notes, thoughts, opinions and life related wisdom.

The entire material that has been presented, discussed or analyzed that evening was interesting as well as heart-warming. For instance, the poem "Mi-e dor", by Ionica Dragomir (entirely published in comments section) and recited by Ileana made each of us travel far back in time, flooding our hearts with the unforgettable joy of our own childhood. Memories and even more dear memories!

Also, in addition to all the guests of the evening, a number of authors were part of the group, and below I will acknowledge their presence (in presenting order):
- The author Dorina Aldea (a former corporate world professional), joining us from Vancouver. Dorina wrote the book "Crampeie de viata", and she is an on-going correspondent of "Observatorul" (from Toronto) & "Formula As" (from Romania).
At our gathering, our dear friend Dorina shared with the group few parts from her essay (with Dorina's permission, the entire material is in comments section & published by "Observatorul" from Toronto as well) featuring her summer vacation this year. Also, she briefly mentioned the poem "Viata la tara", by George Toparceanu (the entire poem is published in comments section), and at the end of her talk she brighten the spirits with few anecdotes, all well received.
- The author Luminita Aldea (joining us straight from Malini, Romania) who wrote few novels, and here I will list them: "Nisipuri miscatoare", "Acasa" (4 volumes) and "Ce dulci sunt fructele amare".

At our gathering, Luminita read a very brief fragment from a personal summer journal (the entire fragment is published in comments section), and then she told us her perspective about this uncommon summer. In addition, here she sent for publishing her message for grade VIII students, prior to their first summer exam. 
- The author Dean Philip (a professional, with additional background in journalism & law), who joined us from Calgary, Canada, wrote the book called "Din tara lui Cain". Dean is also a former correspondent of the Romania's well known publication called "Romania Libera", and of a few other well established publications from Western world. With Dean's permission, and for your reference, here is the interview he offered to the local television.  
At our gathering, Dean also made a number of general remarks about the history of the Romanian literature.
- The author Teodor T. (a former technical professional) was joining us from Vancouver. He wrote two volumes of poetry, called "Balsam pentru suflet".
At our gathering, Teodor was kind to share with us a summer song and a poem (both personal compositions).

As the evening progressed, it was inescapable Eminescu's name not to be mentioned, in a form or another. You all know that several times by now, I emphasized that Mihai Eminescu is Romania's national poet, genuinely acclaimed and cherished by many generations, while regarded by numerous significant critics as being the most important voice of the Romanian literature. His poem "Luceafarul" is a beautiful masterpiece, belonging to national and European's Romantic poetry. 
I'm mentioning all these details because Rodica Phillip was kind to share with the entire group a special book, one of her uncles gifted her with. 
This special book contains only this poem ("Luceafarul") - on one page it has several stanzas while on the opposite page there is a painting depicting the actions the lyrics refer to. For your reference and with Rodica's permission, below I've put together a descriptive photo collage.
Also, proposed for the evening and for your enjoyment, below I will share two more video clips:
- the poem called "Si daca", composed by Mihai Eminescu, and recited by George Vraca
- the song called "Vara vietii mele", interpreted by Tudor Gheorghe.

After few hours of talks, our evening gathering came to an end, so we wrapped it up on a positive note, with plenty of heart-warming remarks and trusting that we will see each other again. As always, the time we spend together flies by very fast, but nonetheless, pleasant in every way.

Once again, much appreciation to each of my guests who were willing and able to join me for the session, and until next time, my best regards to all!
Alice 

For your reference and with Rodica's permission, 
below I've put together a descriptive photo collage, of the famous poem "Luceafarul".

This event has been delivered in Romanian Language, featuring Romanian culture. 

Contemplation: 2020 – a summer like never before

Generally speaking, summer is the perfect time of the year we all are looking forward to with much excitement, but unparalleled, this year our warmest weeks unfolded differently as none of us expected a season of cancelled vacations and enforced social distancing throughout the entire world - without any doubt, decisions hard to make, but believed to be done with health and safety at the core. 

Even thought it might look or feel like a summer of missed opportunities (like missed friends, missed bonding time, missed exotic travels, missed group trips, etc., etc.), the summer still occurred and we all had to become more creative in finding ways to remain optimistic, as well as to continue to support each other despite the harshness. And so we did!

In a way or another, we all adjusted and came up with a variety of ideas and activities doable from the comfort of our homes or availabilities within the local reach, at the same time following the rules in place.
In a way or another, we each continued with our lives, learning on how to face the current challenges and grow from them, while moving forward in a positive way.
In my opinion, this is the time when our spirit, resilience and determination could shine brighter than ever before.
This is the time we all could deepen our understanding on what compassion really means, or what kindness feels like, and why not, what unity through diversity could look like.
If we are willing to dedicate some time to contemplate, we realize that during this difficult stage, our perspective on what it is important in life might change and improve if we choose to do so.
For instance, from small to big, from irrelevant to relevant, from trivial to significant, just by simply changing the conversation openers, we could make a positive change; from "How are you?" to "What are you grateful for today?" or "What is the best thing that happened to you today?" we could move the focus of a conversation toward a positive direction and that's very important during trying times. There is a huge difference between replying and having a conversation, and it is important to notice this variance! Sharing a positive thought is a simple and beautiful way to encourage a deeper response and to shift a person's perspective for good. Great questions definitively spur a great conversation; a great conversation always builds bridges of trust, and ignites the sparks of joy, all leading to valuable insights able to restore a little fun and happiness during this uncommon summer!

"Keep your face toward the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind."