Wednesday, December 16, 2020

KINDNESS – a noble virtue

These days, in a world full of all sorts of issues,
kindness is becoming more valuable than ever before, and despite the ongoing harshness many people still find ways to help each other. According to scholastic papers, kindness is defined as "a behavior marked by ethical characteristics, a pleasant disposition, and a genuine concern for others."
Over time, it has been observed by many that kindness is an essential ability, a noble virtue, a universal quality, a valuable interpersonal skill, based on altruism and empathy. 
In other words, being polite, compassionate, gentle, carrying and thoughtful would be associated with kindness. 
Personally, I believe that kindness is a way to change the world for better, as well as a wonderful way (for each of us) to become better for the world. Different acts of kindness (from small to big, from minor to significant) are always heart-warming. 
For instance, kindness towards nature, towards animals and towards any other people definitively could transform the world and make it a better place to live, but this won't be complete if it doesn't include yourself. Kindness towards yourself is also crucial for one's personal journey and it starts at home; basically, it is about living with integrity, it is about being fully aware of what it is right or wrong, and by having a solid ethical foundation, based on which you could continually build upon. 
Unfortunately, sometimes people tend to believe that kindness means that someone is
naïve or weak, but the truth is that being kind actually requires courage and strength.

On the other hand, sometimes people do confuse "being kind" with "being nice", but there is a difference: "being kind" is based on your personal beliefs, values and ethics, as opposed to "being nice" which refers to the way other people perceive you. Being aware of this, many people deeply realize that true kindness is essential to our daily lives as well as an excellent avenue to happiness.

Random or planned acts of kindness always had and will continue to fill the world with good. Many times, just a simple smile could change your day, shifting your feelings from anxiety to calmness, from anger to peace...the choice is yours; it might not be easy or simple, but definitively truly satisfying!
                    "Kind words can be short and easy, but their echoes are truly endless."   

Tuesday, December 1, 2020

2020: Honoring together Romania's National Day

 ~ A yearly Romanian socio-cultural evening filled with poetry, history & good cheer, featuring Romania's National Day
On December 1st is Romania's National Day, and despite the fact that the current year is so much different than all what we have experienced before, on Tuesday (December 1'20) I was happy to organize a video-conference having each guest connecting virtually from the comfort of their own living-room. 

Also, at this time, I would like to extend a warm "Welcome!" to the new friends who are joining my circle, bringing so much joy to my heart.

The official program of the evening began with the Romanian Anthem (since this evening we were honoring Romania's National Day), followed by the Canadian Anthem (since Canada is our country of adoption), allowing the musical notes to warm up our patriotic sense, and at the same time, widely opening the door for the subsequent, appropriate, discussions.

At this event I was glad to have with us again a guest of honor - Dr. Ovidiu Grecea, who is the General Consul of Romania and the Head of the Romanian Diplomatic Mission in Vancouver, as well as Plenipotentiary Minister of Romania in Canada.
This time, Consul Grecea brought along a renewed message of peace, re-iterating the significance of a productive collaboration, effective communication as well as the importance of unity. He also stressed that the generations to come are the ones that would take further in time the Romanian pride. Consul Grecea, as a Romanian official as well as a Romanian fellow, comes often to my Romanian literary evenings, and I appreciate his presence each time he could join the group, because he represents for all of us the country we each left behind.
As I've mentioned a number of times before, I would like to refresh again that by commemorating our roots, implicitly we honor our ancestors and cultural traditions, helping us remember our dear parents & grandparents, most of whom are gone today, but whose memory will be eternal, no matter where in the world we each are. 

My program continued with a number of interesting presentations, evoking famous Romanians, reciting poems, recalling dear traditions, sharing personal perspectives, or reminding important pages of Romanian history, and here I will give you only a very brief synopsis:
- Our dear friend Dorina Aldea opened the presentations cycle with few fragments from an article she wrote (her article was published by "Observatorul" from Toronto, and with Dorina's permision, also published in comments section) and then shared few personal remarks about the historic event in itself
- This time, I was truly happy to have with us our friend Luminita Aldea (joining the group straight from Romania for a little while), who recited for all a brief prayer and sent us for publication a poem she wrote (with Luminita's permission, the entire poem is published in comments section)
- Then, Teodor T. continued with a summary sharing few historic facts, following with a personal poem & an original song, both referring to 
"December 1".
- Further, our dear friend Sandu O. brought to our attention a number of 6 contemporary names of successful Romanians.
After all the announced presentations were delivered, the famous Romanian patriotic song  "Treceti batalioane Romane Carpatii" ("Romanian Troops, Cross The Carpathian Mountains") was referred to, followed by a lively group tribute (as we each, from the comfort of our house, were accompanied by a glass of champagne or wine)....we all toasted unanimously: "TRAIASCA ROMANIA MARE!" ("LONGLIVE THE GREATER ROMANIA").
At this point, I would also like to briefly refer to another theme related song, many Romanians enjoy, called: 
"Tara noastra-i tara noastra".
The group discussions of our evening together were lengthy, fervent, animated by lots of comments and different personal remarks, jokes, perspectives (some of them quite controversial), dear memories, making us feel that time was passing by much, much faster. Without any doubt, we all had a refreshing and cheerful time!

Aside of that, while at this page, I would like to express my profound gratitude to those who were able and willing to join this gathering, when we all got the chance to fondly talk about our homeland - Romania.

Until we meet again, dear friends, my best wishes to each of you for a peaceful rest of the year!
Alice
Mesaj personal din partea lui Alice, adresat în limba română, la ceas aniversar:
Dragii mei,
Şi pe această cale, doresc să vă transmit sincera mea apreciere pentru prezenţa, susţinerea şi participarea la întâlnirea noastră de grup, având ca tematică "Ziua Naţională a României". 
Cu această ocazie am avut posibilitatea să aducem un aport omagial ţării de baştină, onorându-ne rădăcinile, străbunii, părinţii şi dascălii care au pus o piatră de temelie la fundaţia formării noastre ca oameni şi profesionişti.
Am petrecut împreună nişte momente absolut speciale în care bucuria de a fi român s-a împletit într-un mod armonios, cu sincera dorinţă de communicare şi relaţionare.
Calde mulţumiri!
Alice
“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.” AliceFriendsCircle.blogspot.com
"Once you understand and appreciate other people's cultural background then you would connect more with them."

This event has been delivered in Romanian Language, featuring Romanian culture. 
● Previous events I organized on the same theme: ROMANIA's NATIONAL Day – 20192018
● Some of my greetings referring to ROMANIA's NATIONAL Day – 202020192018 
NOTEDear readers, please be advised that on this website each of the previous postings, pertaining to the recurrent annual themes, portray a different perspective of the subject/s presented (same theme/s, but a different outlook without duplication due to the cultural richness of the specific topic/s discussed)

December 1, 2020: Romania’s National Day

 Every year, on December 1st, Romania celebrates its National Day (also known as "The Great Union Day"),
which is an event of a major historical significance, marking the unification of Transylvania, Bessarabia and Bukovina with the Romanian Kingdom, in 1918.
Dear Romanian fellows, near and far, together with my family, we wish you peace, good health, prosperity and joyful moments together with your loved ones!   
● My previous greetings on the same theme: ROMANIA's NATIONAL Day – 20192018