Sunday, February 14, 2021

Love and few highlights of the coming spring, in 2021

~ Romanian literary evening featuring Valentine’s Day, “Dragobete” & “Mărțișor” ~

On Sunday (February 14’21), I was glad to be able to organize a gathering together with a handful of close friends meant to celebrate Love and the coming spring, while emphasizing three seasonal holidays that are near and dear to our hearts, such as:
Valentine’s Day, “Dragobete” & “Mărțișor”.

On the other hand, as the entire worlds continues to observe a large variety of restrictions concerning the ongoing pandemic, we are proceeding with our events adopting for the time being the ‘on line’ approach.

At our evening together, I was welcoming my guests with a short fragment from a well-known Romanian classical masterpiece, called “Crai nou
(composed by the Romanian Ciprian Porumbescu, who was one of the most celebrated composers of his time, 1853-1883). Why this musical piece? I chose it because "Crai nou" in Romanian language (colloquially speaking) means "new moon", and on February 
14th (astronomically speaking), it is new moon in our part of the world.  
After everyone settled in, I began the evening with a concise slide show (published below), just to briefly refresh some facts pertaining the discussion points covered by the chosen theme. For your reference, here is some additional background info:
Valentine’s Day (February 14):
Saint Valentine's Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine, is celebrated annually on February 14. This originated as a Christian feast day honoring one or two early Christian martyrs named Saint Valentine and, through later folk traditions, has become a significant cultural, religious and commercial celebration of romance and love in many regions of the world.
“Dragobete”  (February 24):
“Dragobete” is a spring festival celebrated in several parts of Southern Romania, and in recent times it has been rekindled (after having been ignored during the Communist years) as the traditional Romanian holiday for lovers. The holiday is named after a character from the Romanian folklore, named “Dragobete” (who is believed to be son of Baba Dochia. In Romanian mythology, ‘Baba Dochia” is an old figure identified with the return of spring).
The date of this spring holiday used to vary depending on the geographical areas, but nowadays is commonly observed on February 24th.
“Mărțișor” (March 1)
The name “Mărțișor” (mərt͡siˈʃor) is the diminutive of “Marț”, the old folk name for March (“martie”, in modern Romanian language), & literally means "the little March". As I’ve mentioned few times before, the actual “Mărțișor” is made of a small decorative object, tied to a white & red string, with two hanging tassels, which is offered customarily on the 1st day of March to girls, women & men (in some parts of the country) as it is believed that the wearer will stay strong & healthy throughout the entire year ahead. In the old times “Mărțișor” was regarded more as a protective talisman, but in modern days, &especially in the urban areas, most of its talisman properties got lost and “Mărțișor” became more of a symbol of friendship, love, appreciation & respect, as well as a symbol of the coming spring.

At our gathering, our dear friend Dorina read us a fragment from an essay she wrote (
circulated by "Observatorul" from Toronto, & with Dorina's permission, the entire essay is published in comments section), which we all enjoyed as she mentioned a number of famous love stories belonging to Romanian history.
Next, Teodor recited few poems (personal compositions) and delighted us with few songs (also, personal compositions).
Then all my guests highly spoke about love, heart-warming memories were shared, while lots of (national & international) traditions and legends were reiterated, more poems were recited and few additional songs were interpreted – individually and as a group….needless to say how much fun we all had!

Yet again, the time we spent together flew by very fast, but it left behind such a pleasant and relaxing feeling of “joie de vivre”. 
Definitively, a beautiful evening filled with lots of special moments and for these I’m sending along my most sincere appreciation to each participant that night.
Until next time, best wishes for a peaceful rest of the season and a fragrant spring to come!
Alice
"LOVE is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend." 
This event has been delivered in Romanian Language, featuring Romanian culture. 
● Previous events I organized on the same concepts: Love, Spring &“Mărțișor”– 20202019
● Some of my additional greetings referring to VALENTINE's Day – 202120202019 
"Mărțișor" 
– 20202019   "DRAGOBETE" – 2020
NOTEDear readers, please be advised that on this website each of the previous postings, pertaining to the recurrent annual themes, portray a different perspective of the subject/s presented (same theme/s, but a different outlook without duplication due to the cultural richness of the specific topic/s discussed)

February 14, 2021: Happy VALENTINE’s Day!

Dear friends, may the day find you close to those you love!
Plant Kindness, Grow Love 
● My previous greetings on the same theme: VALENTINE's Day – 20202019

Saturday, January 30, 2021

Clearly focus on what really matters

As time goes by and life continues to unfold on front of our eyes, a fairly large spectrum of situations emphasizing the 'art of living' are occurring...from small and trivial to big and significant...some of those inspire us, while others make us more vigilant or attentive, but all together (if we choose to pay attention and care) help each of us distinguish and objectively prioritize the most important matters in our personal, professional or social lives.
To further emphasize the point I intend to make, below I'm sharing with you a very popular story, which I'm sure most of you already know, but worth reviewing. Enjoy it!

Story: "The jar of life - rocks, pebbles and sand"
A philosophy professor once stood before his class with a large empty jar. He filled the jar with large rocks and then asked his students if the jar was full. 
He then added small pebbles to the jar and asked again, "Is this jar full now?"
The students agreed that the jar was indeed full. 
 The professor then poured sand into the jar and asked them again if the jar was full.
The students agreed that the jar was finally full.
The professor went on to explain that the jar signifies one's life.
The rocks are equivalent to the most important things in your life, such as family, health and relationships. If the pebbles and the sand were lost, the jar would still be full and your life would still have meaning.
The pebbles represent the other things that matter in your life, such as your work, school and house. These things often come and go, and are not permanent or essential to your overall well-being. And finally, the sand represents the remaining small stuff and material possessions in your life. These things don't mean much to your life as a whole and are likely only done to waste time or get small tasks accomplished.
The metaphor here is that if you start with putting sand into the jar, you will not have room for rocks or pebbles. This holds true for the things you let into your life too.

Moral:
Things and people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, and when you figure out which it is then you will know exactly what to do.
Aside of that, it helps to be reminded that only when you let go of what doesn't bring you joy any longer, you could create space for better things to enter into  your life. 
Elders often used to say that it is important to do well for yourself without harming others, but also equally important it is to make sure you help others without harming yourself. 
To be happy you must let go completely of what's gone, be grateful for what remains and with lucid positivity look forward to what is coming next.
High performance in life always begins with clarity.