Wednesday, May 31, 2023

Alice’s Book Club – SPRING session of 2023

While the beautiful sunny days of the current spring time have such a marvelous effect on all of us, on Wednesday (May 31’23) I was truly happy to be able to organize the second gathering of the year for my seasonal book club (the spring session of 2023), and for everybody’s convenience, we’ve meet on line.
The theme of the evening was “Fashion in daily life”, and instead of our usual novel, in order to better ignite the conversation, this time a research paper conjugated with a documented essay have been chosen as reading materials.
Of course, in addition, personal experiences and individual perspectives were amply discussed, making our evening together really special. 
It was truly beautiful to observe how well my guests embraced the proposed subject, and how easily our talks emerged, nicely leading to meaningful discussions, with breadth and depth.

As usual, respecting the privacy of the personal matters discussed, here are only few thoughts of general interest, as well as some additional concepts issued by the fashion industry leaders, which might be of interest to you:
- The best fashion is truly what makes you feel happy and, at the end of the day, confidence transcends any fashion rules
- Feeling confident in your clothes is more attractive than any trend could ever be
-  Fashion originated from people’s traditions and cultures, and became what it is today, through individuals adopting each style and making it their own 
- Each era had its style/s that directly resulted from that time’s circumstances
- Fashion industry is a very competitive industry, which depends on person’s search for identity (fashion is a reflection of who you are)
- Fashion has several benefits, such as: boosting self-confidence, lightening moods, and developing creativity
- Generally speaking, fashion choices could help people send messages and present their beliefs, implying the fact that fashion could also be very political
- Each new generation is surrounded and continuously exposed to extensive commercial influences concerning fashion
- It has been observed by many that nowadays youths are more sensitive to what people think of them, and some will always do everything to follow trends, even if they’re not presentable or appropriate, etc....

Typically, our group talks were lengthy, honest, interesting, enjoyable and balanced, leaving each of us with a very pleasant feeling of benevolent camaraderie.
In closing, once again, my most sincere appreciation to all my friends who were able to join me this evening, wishing them each a wonderful rest of spring!
Till we meet again, my warmest regards to all!
Alice 
“FASHION says: me too. STYLE says: only me.”

Thursday, May 25, 2023

FASHION world

By far, the fashion industry remains one of the most flourishing industries of the world, but what do you think it makes it so special? I truly believe that it is us – the people – because more individuals are becoming more and more conscious of their physical appearance.
It is well known that fashion “is the dominant style within a given culture at a certain time” and we notice that is becoming too spotlighted for it to be considered unimportant.
For the purpose of this briefing, here I’m sharing with you an article from an European fashion magazine, which might broaden your perspective even more about this vast and quite intriguing subject….enjoy it!

Short ARTICLE:
About fashion, attire, attitude and distinction
       Fashion in clothing represents the correctness of clothes, taste, and attitude. Fashion is an "outfit", it is a "style". "For a person, everything must be beautiful: both face and clothing, thought and soul" (Chekhov).
      Fashion is also an art, as it is painting, music, literature; It combines tradition with innovation, classicism with modernism, what we inherited from our ancestors with what we shape in our contemporary times.
       Through this article, we do not want to pose as modellers, but we are just trying to highlight some generalities. Balzac, who wrote many pages about fashion, said: "The brute covers himself, the rich or the foolish adorn, and the elegant man dresses." It is about the latter that we are trying to discuss.
       In a more optimistic thinking, we must show that change and variation are necessities of human conscience; fashion can be the symbol of passion, struggle and creative activity, tensions and desires for rejuvenation, "expression of the restless innovative spirit, stimulator and orientation of man's vital momentum" (C. Angelescu).
       An English proverb says: "eat to please yourself, but dress so that you please others." In other words, fashion means balancing personal taste with the unanimously accepted one, it means adopting in a personal note what practice proves corresponding to the taste and preferences of the time, the art of choosing, from among the invariable elements, those that harmonize with everyone's personality, in the right place, at the right time.
       Dressing tastefully remains a matter of taste, but of "good taste"; Taste that has become "good taste" is no longer subjective and, associated with common sense, is included in the spheres of politeness.
       We dress for ourselves and others; no modesty, no extravagance, not like yesterday, not like tomorrow, like today!
       Contemporary fashion houses are increasingly giving everyone the right to express their personality. The current struggle in fashion is for adequacy, for sincerity.
       It is expected a relaxed fashion, devoid of rigidity; an evolved fashion, where each individual is the creator of his own outfit, learning to discern what suits him, especially when he has the format of good taste. Let it be known, however, that parrot garments, ornamented with all kinds of "globes, cherries with rum and screaming plumage" do not go on New Year's Eve, March 1, neither on the seaside nor abroad. Screaming clothes betray a lack of good taste.
       The fashion of the active man is the fashion of coordinated elements: harmony of form, style and colors, simplicity, naturalness, naturalness, intelligence! "Simplicity of cooking and speech, temperance, these are ornaments of nature" (Democritus).
       Fashion has a logic and a balance of its own, maybe even elegance. Fashion is a necessity, elegance a refinement; fashion means "what is worn", elegance "how to wear". With common sense you are born, decency is given to you by your parents, your outfit and elegance are cultivated…expression of a certain delicacy of soul, of a way of moving, speaking, dressing and communicating, our attire, in all circumstances, makes the transition from utility to elegance.
       If fashion is capricious and beauty fleeting, elegance can be steadfast and always accompanying us. An intelligent woman knows how to dress, according to her possibilities, according to her silhouette, age and occasions, filtering and choosing with discernment what suits her, what gives her charm, what completes her personality, what achieves balance and harmony of elegance. Charm and elegance are above fashion.
       For young people, dress rules are somewhat more lenient. Youth is exuberance, it is thirst for action, with its natural turmoil. A certain note of cheerfulness, movement, non-conformism and maybe even a certain negligence of clothing can be part of the elegance of youth, of course within the limits of common sense.
       The diversity of models offered by fashion designers gives the possibility to choose, depending on age and preference, the model that "gives life to years" and "does not add years to life". Everyone must be the "arbiter of his tastes", to know what benefits him; The clothing "approaches" the body, rediscovering it, emphasizing the waist, hips, neckline, in a word "femininity".
       We draw attention, however, to the fact that, considering the perspective, good manners are not easily put in the bin; It will eventually overcome the permanent desire to return to simplicity that also gives way to awareness and good proportions.
”Don't be into trends. Don't make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express by the way you dress and the way to live.” (Gianni Versace)


Sunday, May 14, 2023

May 2023: “Happy MOTHER’s Day!”

Here, every year, Mother’s Day is celebrated in May, when people emphasize and celebrate the contribution a woman makes
to take up in a smooth manner her family along with her career and the ways she contributes to the society she belongs to. 
Also, I would like to refresh that in my opinion, motherhood has the greatest potential to influence human life on Earth, and I think that it is important to honor this.
To all beautiful mothers out there: Happy Mother's Day! 
Here is a short poem I wrote few years ago, and I’m glad to share it further…enjoy!
Ode to mothers (by Alice)
“Your mother is the whisper of the wind while you walk the path of your life,
She is the healing hand when you are sick,
She is the place you call home,
She is your guide in every step you take,
She is in your heart and you are in her heart, no matter where you go;
A mother’s heart is always a mother’s heart, 
And her love is true, unconditional and eternal!”
● My previous greetings on the same theme: MOTHER’s Day20222021, 2020, 2019