TIME is flying by very fast

Whether we realize it or not, time is a tremendously valuable treasure, and unfortunately so many people waste it foolishly in lots of meaningless activities.

Philosophers believe that if we would take care of time, other things would take care of themselves automatically.

The greatest figures of the history knew the value of time, so that’s is why they were able to leave remarkable footprints behind.
Generally speaking people want success, happiness, money, fame, etc., etc., but the records have shown that only those who make the best of their time could have many of these. We all grow in time, live in time, die in time, and that’s why every minute is so important. Nothing is more significant than time! As I've said before, time is more powerful than kings and princess (who come and go)...time goes on eternally. Time is destiny, it is history, it is civilization. Nothing is beyond time! Time is way more precious than money. We identify time as birth, growth, decay and death, but time is neither a beginning nor an end. Time is forever. Everyone should appreciate the value of time and make good use of it, because time is an opportunity, and if it slips through our hands, we can’t bring it back so that’s why it is crucial to make sure we spend it wisely.

On the other hand, life is very short. It has been said by many that it is like a drop in the ocean, and this drop should not be wasted…it should be turned into a pearl by using it wisely and thoughtfully.

For your brief enjoyment, here is a short story shared by an intelligent woman, which I find appropriate to pass it on…peaceful reading, dear ones!

Insights

“I am no longer waiting for a special occasion; I burn the best candles on ordinary days.

I am no longer waiting for the house to be clean; I fill it with people who understand that even dust is part of life.

I am no longer waiting for everyone to understand me; it’s just not their task.

I am no longer waiting for the perfect kids; my children have their own names that burn as brightly as any star.

I am no longer waiting for the other shoe to drop; it already did, and I survived.

I am no longer waiting for the time to be right; the time is always now.

I am no longer waiting for the mate who will complete me; I am grateful to be so warmly and tenderly held.

I am no longer waiting for a quiet moment; my heart can be stilled whenever it is called.

I am no longer waiting for the world to be at peace; I unclench my grasp and breathe peace in and out.

I am no longer waiting to do something great; being awake to carry my grain of sand is enough.

I am no longer waiting to be recognized; I know that I could dance each time I choose to.

I am no longer waiting for Forgiveness; I offer it and move on.”

Life is short. Time is fast. No replay. No rewind. Enjoy every moment as it comes.

Few thoughts about THE WAY PEOPLE THINK

Whether we agree or not, many times, the mind "grinds" negative thoughts of dissatisfaction (such as lack of forgiveness, non-acceptance, resentment, envy, etc.) and in such situation/s, logically speaking, it has no way of generating a positive and a healthy experience, isn’t it?!

The extraordinary part of it is that the mind (representing the totality of your thoughts) is "under the direction" of your will, which is basically the ability to choose the kinds of thoughts it will host, and that in itself gives us all tremendous hope. Your thoughts are like seeds: what you sow, you reap (right?!), and based on that you could choose a certain way of thinking and subsequently a certain way of living. 
Despite the fact that in our society, a human being does not always have the ability to influence the external circumstances and the behavior of his or her fellows, in the end s/he still has the ability to choose how to react to what it is done to her or to him. 
Do you remember the saying: “life is 20 percent what happens to you and 80 percent how you respond”? Generally, that’s pretty much the case! Let it be clear that positive thinking does not mean you do not notice the bad things in life; it means that you try to find a solution in a productive way instead of whining about it.

I know, in theory it sounds good and easy, but practically speaking it is a bit harder.
Well, as you all know, when the ground slips away from under your feet, cling to the sky…Sunday is coming! Meanwhile, dear friends please stay healthy and wise!

"The measure of happiness in your life depends on the quality of your thoughts" (Marcus Aurelius)

August 31, 2022: ROMANIAN LANGUAGE Day

The Romanian Language Day is another perfect occasion for all Romanians throughout the world to celebrate their cultural heritage and to be remembered that despite the fact that many people use this language routinely, our ancestors fought for it.

“The Romanian Language Day is a celebration of the Romanian soul, because the language is the most pronounced effigy of the Romanians.”
(Ioan Aurel Pop, the president of the Romanian Academy, at the debate "The current status of the Romanian language")

”Limba română are virtuţi complete, adică poate fi vehicul a tot ce se întâmplă spiritual în om. E foarte greu de mânuit.

Prin ea poţi deveni vultur sau cântăreţ de strană.”  ~Petre Ţuţea~

● Excerpt: 
Many definitions have been given of the language and of the Romanian language, but language for me means a living organism that is born, grows, develops and even ages sometimes and flows into other languages at the same time as the people who created it and that served as a means of communication. That's why we are talking, perhaps scientifically incorrect, but in colloquial language, about living languages and dead languages. Ours is alive and no matter how contaminated it may be today by neologisms, barbarisms, hyper-urbanisms, unusual abbreviations, naughty text messages, we should not be afraid. The Romanian language still has the power to remain itself despite these various dangers," said Ioan Aurel Pop during an event held in the Academy's Aula.

Did you know? Romanian Language is mother tongue of around 30 million individuals, and taught as a foreign language in universities, in 45 countries.

● My previous post on the same theme: ROMANIAN LANGUAGE Day – 2021

NOTE: Dear readers, please be advised that on this website each of the previous postings, pertaining to the recurrent annual themes, portray a different perspective of the subject/s presented (same theme/s, but a different outlook without duplication due to the cultural richness of the specific topic/s discussed). 

FOREST – a precious gift of nature

A beautiful summer walk in the coolness of an ancient forest might inspire your imagination, stir and rejuvenate your senses, while easily and effortlessly could bring years to your life.

A forest is much more than a collection of splendid old trees….a forest makes our environment clean and green. 

May we appreciate this!
🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿

“The Sounds of the FOREST” 

(audio)

About "JUDGEMENT" & "NON-JUDGEMENT"

The truth is that we all make judgements, as it seems to be in the human nature to do so, because one of the purposes of the mind /brain is to judge, and we do it instinctively, subconsciously, without realising at times; it’s a primal thing designed to “keep us safe”.
The way we look at things, our actions, responses, opinions, behaviours, communication, they are all showing signs of our journey in some way.
Judgements are based on our own experiences and the lenses we view the world through, being based on our own moral compass, values, beliefs, stories and understanding, all of which are formed through our own life experiences – our work experiences, relationships, teachings and interactions, things we’re exposed to first, second and third hand, including media and social media.
Consequently, we have thoughts and feelings around situations, circumstances, events, practices, behaviours, beliefs, attitudes, ideas, values, people and ourselves that will have an automatic internal response for us. Based on what you see, hear or experience, a series of responses in your brain will be triggered.
Judgements can also be influenced by how we’re feeling at any given moment, with things like tolerance, acceptance & patience being the first to go when we’re low.

On the other hand, theoretically, being non-judgemental refers to "having a sense of balance, a sound way of understanding misunderstandings and a civilized manner of accepting those with whom we may disagree. This behaviour is reflected in one's words, choices, actions and reactions."
Being non-judgemental is how you acknowledge, deal with & manage those judgments, the influence & impact they have – from both sides of the coin; it is about being open minded, being in the moment, actively listening, while allowing that judgement to pass & not interfere with being fully present for that person or case. 

To be non-judgmental, a great deal of personal awareness and understanding is required.
In essence, being non-judgemental is about acceptance, empathy, compassion and understanding it is about having the knowledge and skills to be able to listen properly, to observe, clarifying your understanding and interpretation without assumption. This is in congruence with what you’re saying and the way you’re behaving, being fully present, not just physically. Basically, it is meeting that person where they are, in life, in business, mentally, emotionally, while creating an environment that enables them to feel safe and deal with what they need help with.
People will make judgements, especially out there on social media, but it’s a reflection of the person doing the judging. It is important to be careful that applying labels and making judgments, although it seems easy and sometimes gives momentary satisfaction of an illusory superiority, in the medium and long term erodes or even damages relationships, breaks hearts, steals peace & harmony, and on top of everything else, it destroys health (both of the object of the judgment, & especially of the one who judges). For the most part, it’s our own judgements that cause us the biggest difficulties, the assumptions we make about what other people may think or do, or how things might work out.

At this time the kindness and understanding of the other (during his or her difficult times) heals and restores....it is similar with a familiar feeling....when we are held in arms, caressed and loved, a voice inside us tells us: I can go and face the world again.

"Everything we judge in other is something within ourselves we don’t want to face."