DECEMBER – month of the winter solstice

DECEMBER (the 12^th month of the year in Gregorian calendar), carries a unique energy as the final month of the year, at the same time marking both an ending and a new beginning. The crisp air touched with a fine scent of pine, early sunsets casting long shadows and the twinkle of festive lights all combine to create a palpable sense of transition. It is a month that invites us to pause and reflect, to celebrate the connections we hold dear, and to renew our inner sense of purpose.
There is a quiet magic woven into December’s fabric…a magic that speaks not only to the external world of seasons and holidays, but also to the internal world of aspiration, gratitude and human connection. 

In my opinion, one of the most profound gifts of December is its invitation to reflection. Standing at the threshold of a new year, we are naturally called to look back over the past. It is a time to acknowledge achievements, however small, and to reconcile with the missteps or missed opportunities we may have encountered. Reflection is not merely an exercise in self-assessment; it is a way of recognizing growth as a continuous journey, because each experience, challenge and victory has contributed to the fabric of who we are today. By taking the time to pause amidst the bustle of daily life, December reminds us to honor the trajectory of our lives, to appreciate the resilience that has carried us and to see the wisdom embedded in our experiences. 

Beyond reflection, December is often characterized by celebration and connection. Across cultures, various holidays converge during this month, infusing communities with warmth, light and togetherness.

For many, December is filled with the joy of giving (whether through gifts, acts of kindness, or generous gestures of time and attention).

There is a profound psychology behind this act of generosity: giving connects us with others, strengthens bonds and cultivates empathy. Sharing in the celebration, whether through family traditions, communal meals, or festive decorations, fosters a sense of belonging and amplifies the human capacity for love and gratitude.

December’s festivities remind us that joy is not only found in the material, but also in the shared experiences that anchor our social and emotional lives.

The seasonality of December also carries symbolic meaning. In our Northern Hemisphere, it is a time of cold, early nights and dormant landscapes. Nature itself appears to pause, conserving energy for the renewal that spring will bring. In this stillness, there is an opportunity for introspection and regeneration, as the quietude of December encourages mindfulness (which is the practice of being present in the moment, observing thoughts and emotions without judgment, and cultivating internal clarity). Just as trees shed their leaves in preparation for new growth, we are invited to consider what aspects of our inner lives may need release or reassessment. December, then, becomes a metaphorical winter garden, where the soul can rest, replenish, and ready itself for the growth of the coming year. This notion of renewal is closely tied with hope. While December may bring shorter days and longer nights, it also ushers in the promise of new beginnings. There is a way in closing one chapter and preparing for the next, and the onset of a new year amplifies the desire for personal evolution. Hope in December is not merely wishful thinking; it is an active, intentional framing of the future. It is about setting intentions, envisioning personal and communal goals, and cultivating the courage to embrace change. By consciously aligning reflection with foresight, we transform the closing of one year into a launchpad for growth (and change) in the next.

December also calls us to transform challenges into opportunities for growth. The pressures of a year’s end (deadlines, travel, social obligations, etc.) may feel overwhelming, yet they also offer a blueprint for resilience. By cultivating patience, adaptability, and gratitude, we harness these challenges as catalysts for strengthening our character and deepening our relationships. In this light, December becomes more than a month of exterior warmth and light; it is a crucible for personal development, resilience, and the capacity to embrace life fully, even in its complexities.

Additionally, valuable insights can be drawn from December’s interplay of light and dark. The shortening days and longer nights prompt reflection on dualities present in life: joy and sorrow, loss and gain, stillness and activity. Recognizing this duality expands our consciousness and enhances our capacity for empathy and understanding. The contrast makes moments of light more luminous, reminding us that even in darker times, the potential for joy, connection and awe remains; embracing these contrasts allows us to navigate life with equanimity and to appreciate the richness of human experience.

Furthermore, December teaches the value of ritual and symbolism. From lighting candles and decorating trees to writing cards and sharing meals, the traditions observed during this month are imbued with meaning. They serve as anchors, providing structure amidst the flux of daily life and reinforcing our sense of identity and belonging. These rituals connect us to the past, ground us in the present, and project our hopes into the future, while offering continuity, stability and comfort. By engaging with meaningful practices, we tap into a reservoir of cultural and personal significance that strengthens both the individual and collective spirit.

Finally, December is an invitation to mindfulness, gratitude and intentionality. In the face of holiday hustle and the transition to a new year, it is easy to become swept up in obligations and expectations. Yet, by slowing down, practicing presence and cultivating gratitude for the small, profound moments, we find a deeper resonance within the month. Simple walks observing snowflakes, conversations over warm cups of tea, or reflective journaling can become sources of insight and light. By embracing mindfulness, we transform ordinary experiences into powerful opportunities for connection and growth, fostering a sense of completeness even amidst endings. In essence, December is more than a calendar designation; it is a state of mind, a period rich in reflection, celebration, renewal and hope. It challenges us to reflect on our journeys, to engage meaningfully with those around us, to find beauty in stillness and to embrace life with joy and courage. By approaching December with intention and mindfulness, we cultivate a practice of living fully, acknowledging the passage of time while actively shaping the next chapter of our lives. In its cold, luminous days, December whispers a profound truth: endings carry within them the seeds of beginnings, and in reflecting, celebrating, and renewing, we come closer to the essence of what it means to be alive.

Let December be a reminder to live with gratitude, to embrace hope, to celebrate connection, and to emerge from the month with a heart ready for the opportunities and challenges that lie ahead. It is a reminder that the ebb and flow of the seasons mirror the rhythms of our lives and that we can cultivate a deeper, more meaningful experience of our shared human journey. By cherishing December’s quiet wisdom and festive generosity alike, we uncover a path forward that is thoughtful, inspired, and alive with possibilities.

"December is a mirror of time, reminding us that every ending holds the promise of a new beginning."

End of November'25: ALICE & Friends™ – winter charity

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HAPPINESS, in passing thoughts

Happiness, elusive and subjective, often feels like a prize hidden somewhere in our daily routines. We chase it relentlessly, yet it frequently slips through our fingers. One thought I keep returning to is that happiness is less of a destination and more of a landscape…more of a dynamic, shifting terrain colored by perception, expectation and sincere gratitude. Often, we mistake joy for the accumulation of experiences or possessions, but the truth is more subtle: happiness seems to flourish in awareness, in small attentions and in ordinary moments. 

Classical music: Beethoven, Mozart, Chopin (video clip)

Consider how memory interacts with happiness. A fleeting moment of laughter during a mundane afternoon may feel trivial at the time, but later on it could become a treasured recollection. Conversely, anticipated pleasures often falter when they arrive, failing to meet the elevated expectations we've built in our minds.
Our brains, wired for analysis and comparison, frequently sabotage the simple satisfaction of the present. Perhaps cultivating mindfulness (developing the skill to fully experience each moment without judgment) it might allow happiness to bloom in unexpected ways.

Another neglected aspect is the social dimension of happiness. While personal achievements contribute to feelings of contentment, the richness of laughter, shared silence, or even empathetic listening often outweighs solitary success. Human connection, though sometimes fraught with complexity, forms a foundational element of well-being. Ironically, the moments we consider too small to notice (a friendly comment, an attentive gaze, a morning greeting) often carry disproportionate weight in our sense of flourishing.

Curiously, happiness appears resilient when we embrace imperfection. Perfectionism, while seductive, tends to generate ongoing dissatisfaction. Recognizing our frailties and embracing them with humor and compassion (both for ourselves and for others) releases a subtle, but pervasive, sense of relief that stitches small, cumulative happiness into our lives. This suggests that happiness is as much of a skill as it is an emotional state; a practice of gentleness toward oneself and the surrounding world.

Nature, too, reveals a profound relationship with joy. There is a certain kind of happiness in observing a tree’s resilience, the rhythm of waves, or the gradual shift of leaves through seasons. This is not simply aesthetic appreciation; it is a recognition of continuity and presence that both ground and expand the mind. Such moments provide perspective, reminding us of the transience of trouble and the enduring capacity of life.

Finally, there is the paradoxical insight that actively seeking happiness often obstructs it. Happiness seems to thrive quietly when we focus less on measuring it and more on acting with curiosity, compassion and creative effort. In this sense, happiness feels like a byproduct rather than a goal, an emergent property of living attentively and responsively.

In conclusion, I truly believe that happiness resists simplification. It is intertwined with perception, memory, social connection, acceptance and moments of wonder. As we navigate our lives, perhaps the wisest approach is not a relentless pursuit, but a gentle cultivation; an openness to fleeting moments, an appreciation for the ordinary and an acknowledgment of interconnectedness. If anything, these scattered, random thoughts suggest that happiness may be less a matter of acquiring something external and more about learning to inhabit the spaces inside and around us with curiosity, awareness and gratitude. It is in the quiet, composite layering of thought, action and attention that happiness lights up in small, surprising ways.

Sometimes our happiness comes not from abundance, but from the gentle art of savoring a fleeting moment.

Philosophers’ Café with ALICE & Friends: Autumn 2025

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COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT: BC Multicultural Week 2025

 ~ ALICE & Friends Circle™ representing Romania at BC Multicultural Week 2025 ~

On Sunday (16 November 2025) our Literary & Socio-Cultural Group,
ALICE & Friends Circle™, has been invited by Culture Chats BC Association to represent Romania at their annual multicultural arts event – occasion which marks the opening of the BC Multiculturalism Week in our province.

Although, officially we are not a performing group or a band,
our cultural delegation was more than ready to take on the challenge.

Our presentation at this event began in a literary manner, with Circle's message for the ongoing BC Multicultural Week 2025. In addition, we brought with us several well-established highlights featuring our old culture – an authentic Romanian song (delivered live by a very talented Romanian youth), we exemplified few beautiful folk costumes of our country (few ladies of our cultural delegation were wearing complete traditional outfits), we brought a little bit of spirituality with us (the present icon is attesting ‘par excellence’ that aspect, Romania being a predominately Christian country), as well as a safe amount of national pride (graciously gathered under the Romanian flag).
At the end of our demonstration on stage, in the closing remarks of my brief speech, I emphasized that in less than 2 weeks, on December 1^st, we will celebrate Romania’s National Day, and I was glad to be able to invite the audience to reach out to us if they wish to learn more about our country, about our customs, about our history and about our lasting existence. 

For this day, before the official start of the program, at a reasonable sound level,
I had playing in the background at our table the “Romanian Rapsody” (composed by our famous George Enescu), while simultaneously I had a slide show running on my laptop, with beautiful images from Romania (emphasizing the concept of “Romania – the fairy tale land”).

For your enjoyment, if you wish to listen the immortal notes of the “Roman Rhapsody”, please follow this quick link. Thank you!

Preparing Circle’s appearance at this event, I enjoyed very much collaborating with Asmita Lawrence (the founding director of this Association) and Craita Isbasescu (a member of their board of directors, of a Romanian descendent).  

For our Circle, this type of involvement goes under the category of Community engagements.

Participating at this event, it was very interesting for me to see how the worlds of literature, culture and human experiences could nicely converge.

Key note speakers, singers, dancers, writers, thinkers, crafters, storytellers came together, talking about their passions, about their lives, about their hopes and dreams, all together illuminating the intricate tapestry of our multicultural society and the interplay between the personal vision and the collective identity. 

Without any doubt (for me personally), it was a very special experience, where these many arts could become both a mirror and a window, reflecting our world while offering vistas into the lives, struggles and triumphs of those who shape it.
 

Also, while at this page, I would like to emphasize a bit the significance of BC Multiculturalism Week in our province.

Every year, BC proclaims the third week of November as the Multiculturalism Week, in order to celebrate the province’s multicultural communities, their contributions, and the way diversity strengthens BC’s society. The celebration underscores values of inclusion, equity and respect, promoting a society free from racism, where all residents have equal opportunities to participate in community life.

BC is Canada’s most ethnically diverse province, home to more than 200 First Nations, Métis, Inuit & urban Indigenous communities, alongside residents originating from over 200 countries. Each year, the province also welcomes more than 40,000 new immigrants, highlighting the ongoing enrichment of its multicultural fabric.

From a historical perspective, BC Multicultural Week is guided by the British Columbia Multiculturalism Act (1993), which aims to enhance cross-cultural understanding and ensure that public policies, services and programs are sensitive and responsive to the multicultural reality of the province.
Ministries and organizations report annually on their efforts to uphold multicultural principles, ensuring alignment with the values of respect, inclusion and equity.  

Different individuals, schools, workplaces and community groups usually participate by hosting cultural displays, performances, educational activities and storytelling events. Social media campaigns such as #BCMulticulturalismWeek encourage residents to share stories and support inclusion throughout the province. Clearly, BC Multicultural Week 2025 is an opportunity for all British Columbians to celebrate diversity, learn about different cultures and acknowledge the contributions of multicultural communities to the province’s social and cultural development.

Wrapping up my briefing here, as we all journey through the week ahead of us (November 17-23'25 is the Multiculturalism Week in our province...BC, Canada),
I invite you to be reminded that each member of our society contributes a unique perspective, drawing from diverse backgrounds, experiences and traditions, while creating a rich mosaic of narratives that speak to both the universal and the particular. Through these lenses, we not only examine the mechanics of arts, but we also uncover the rich socio-cultural currents that act as a catalyst for dialogue, empathy and understanding, bridging temporal and social boundaries.
Sincerely,
Alice 

"No culture can live, if it attempts to be exclusive."  (Mahatma Gandhi)

● Here is the message received from the organizer

● Here is the documentary FILM produced by ROMPOST (a local TV station in Vancouver) featuring the participation of ALICE & Friends Circle™, representing Romania, at BC Multicultural Week 2025, on November 16, 2025.

Socializing: Early, Pre-Christmas Reunion 2025

In anticipation of the coming holidays season, on Friday (November 14, 2025) I was super pleased to organize an early, pre-Christmas reunion with a group of dear friends and loyal supporters of our Circle! Needles to say that the joy was in our midst the entire evening!

You know, there is always something magic in gathering together with friends who are on the same wavelength with you, before the world gets lost into the holidays' rush…to me this is a moment to pause, to reflect and to celebrate the connections that remind us what truly matters. This type of reunion is also a celebration of the shared journeys, laughter and challenges that have shaped us over the past year.

Each of my guests tonight brought a story, a spark, a presence that brightened our Circle, and personally I’m very grateful for that because only together, we create a tapestry rich with friendship, kindness and inspiration…threads that become stronger every time we gather. In this space, joy isn’t measured by gifts or glitter, but by the warmth of being together, knowing that even in a bustling world, these moments anchor us. Once again, to all my friends tonight: thank you for being by my side!

Gifts of time, attention, kindness and beautiful friendships are surely the basic ingredients of a blessed life!

PS:
In a not-too-distant future I will be back with a much more detailed photo collage, but for now I'm just posting this beautiful group photo, which eloquently reflects the beautiful atmosphere we all enjoyed this Friday evening.

November 11, 2025: REMEMBRANCE Day

This year, on Remembrance Day (November 11, 2025), we pause in solemn reflection to honor those who gave their lives in service to our nation and for the ideals of freedom and peace. Their courage and selflessness remind us that liberty and security are not inherited without sacrifice, and that the tranquility we often take for granted has been secured by their unwavering commitment.

As we stand in remembrance, let us allow their legacy to guide us toward responsibility and compassion, recognizing that our actions today are shaped by the freedoms they defended. Wearing a poppy, observing a moment of silence, or sharing their stories are not mere rituals…they are affirmations that their valor continues to inspire and that their sacrifices are never forgotten.

May this day strengthen our resolve to uphold the values for which they fought, to live not only in gratitude but with purpose, and to ensure that every generation remembers the profound cost of freedom. Lest we forget….

“A single life given for others echoes through generations…listen to that echo and be inspired.”

● CANADIAN highlights, filled with words of respect and...remembrance...
- The solider behind 'In Flanders Fields' (short documentary done by CBC News, and published under 'The National')   |   “In Flanders Fields” (youth choir)

- “In Flanders Fields”, by John McCrae (poem recited by Leonard Cohen)
● ROMANIAN highlights, filled with words of respect and...remembrance...
- An old Romanian patriotic song (Corul Armatei Române – “Pui de lei“) | Another well-known Romanian patriotic song (“Treceți batalioane române Carpații“)
- A short documentary called “Romania“

● My previous greetings on the same theme: REMEMBRANCE Day – 2024, 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019