Friday, October 27, 2023

Alice’s Book Club – AUTUMN session of 2023

“Face of Peace”
Drawing by Picasso (1950)

Days around here are getting cooler and cooler, but on Friday (October 27’23) I organized the autumnal session of my seasonal book club series, which is also the last session of the current year, and the chosen topic was “Reinventing yourself”…an interesting, while intriguing concept, genuinely appreciated by everyone. Comfortably, we have gathered on-line for our evening talks.

This time as well I had 2 special guest speakers: my dear friend, writer and well-known painter, visual artist Pnina Granirer (here is her website: www.pninagranirer.com), and my dear friend Rodica P. (a retired electrical engineer), both discussing their perspectives on the above mentioned theme. Definitively, both these ladies captured the audience with their wisdom, with their extensive life experience, and more than anything else, with their charming attitude which in a way left us wonder how both of them managed to maintain their poise unaltered while facing so many challenging situations in their lives. Without any doubt, such amazing people are precious in many ways, and the only thing I truly wish is to see younger generations value more the wisdom of the ones before them.
Anyhow, before I will give you the usual briefing with few main concepts of general interest (like I always do), I would like to share with you something else, equally amazing, in my opinion.
Recently we had in our city the “Vancouver Fashion Week”, which is the second largest fashion week in North America, very popular around here, featuring a large variety of runway shows, all sorts of industry professionals and many, many designers from all over the world.
Being super busy at that very time, I couldn’t attend it, but a very dear friend of mine went and there she met an amazing lady from Japan (her name is Akiko), who featured during her presentation in Vancouver our traditional Romanian dresses. My friend found that amazing and knowing that I will also be so super excited about the concept, she invited Akiko at our event, on October 27’23…and, as the saying goes…the rest is history….
Because I found Akiko’s work in Japan absolutely fascinating, I had her open the evening and give us all a brief talk about her activity in Japan. As a result, we’ve all learned that Akiko went to Romania (in Northern part, in Maramureş area), with the clear desire to learn more about the Romanian traditional dresses, as well as our traditional embroideries. She traveled through our old villages, meeting people, taking lots of pictures, appreciating our traditional foods and truly enjoying, for the time being, our countryside.
Needless to say that myself, as a person borne in Romania, listening to the beautiful stories of this amazing Japanese lady about my birth country brought so much joy to my heart. Below, I’ve put together a concise collage featuring Akiko’s passion for the Romanian culture, her store in Kyoto from where she sells throughout the world lots of traditional dresses from Romania, as well as her Instagram page (here is the link: https://www.instagram.com/rochie_romanian_vintage/).
Also, for your reference, here is the YouTube video of Akiko’s participation at Vancouver Fashion week, where her models were exhibiting the Romanian vintage dresses. At our gathering, Akiko herself was wearing a traditional Romanian dress. All in one, a truly amazing story!
 
Now, coming back to my 2 special guest speakers of this beautiful evening: as I’ve mentioned, each of their presentations brought to our attention many, many valuable points. Lots of questions were answered and many more were raised, being graciously addressed.  
For your benefit, here are few concepts of general interest:
- Major life changes are never easy, but if you focus you will be surprised of how much you could achieve
- Before you plan to reinvent yourself, first of all you have to know who you really are (know your strengths, weaknesses, passions, etc.)
- Have a good understanding of what is going on in the world, clearly list all the opportunities you are noticing & try to match what suits you
- In life it is important to evaluate yourself objectively, and keep at by the tendency of illusory superiority
- It is significant to find a functional balance between the goals you wish to chase and your values (what really matters to you)
- As you integrate reinvention efforts into your daily life, remember to always be honest with yourself.
There were many other angles discussed as well, in essence having change at core, but for now I think these deep highlights would suffice.

As usual, our group talks were lengthy, honest, interesting, enjoyable and balanced, leaving each of us with a very pleasant feeling of benevolent camaraderie.
Before I’m ending my brief update here, once again I would like to express my most sincere appreciation to those who honored my invitation.
Till we meet again, my best regards to all!
Alice
“Every end is a new beginning.” 


Monday, October 9, 2023

October 2023 – Message for THANKSGIVING Day

Today (October 9’23) is the Canadian Thanksgiving Day, occasion which allows me to send along a new bunch of good wishes to all my dear friends (old & new, closer or more distant), collaborators (occasional or recurrent) and at large sympathizers of ALICE & Friends Circle™ for their ongoing support throughout the almost 6 (six) years of existence of our literary and socio-cultural group! Please do know that your loyalty is valued and your presence is truly appreciated! 
May you continue to attend our Circle’s events and charm us with your positive attitude!
● My previous greetings on the same theme: THANKSGIVING Day – 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018

Saturday, September 23, 2023

September 23, 2023: Happy AUTUMN, dear friends!

"Autumn" – a new season of shimmering colours, the crackling of falling leaves, the picking of mushrooms or blackberries...summer is over, and autumn is here!
In the realm of symbolism, the season is radiant... Autumn is undoubtedly the most mysterious of seasons, but it is also the most
spectacular. Somewhere between Indian summer and mutation, autumn remains a fleeting moment, a kind of swansong. Summer slowly fades away, giving way to an even more beautiful season with all its autumnal colours. Green will turn to red, yellow and brown. Even if your heart is filled with nostalgia and melancholy, this season is a joy for walkers, nature lovers and mushroom pickers! The magnificent colours of the forest will enchant your weekends before the arrival of winter. I hope you have a fabulous new season!
Autumn paints the world in splendid colors.
● My previous greetings on the same theme: AUTUMNAL Equinox – 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018

Thursday, September 21, 2023

Alice’s Book Club – SUMMER session of 2023

On Thursday (September 21, 2023) we had our end of the current summer book club session, this time discussing few beautiful concepts:
Femininity. Style. Wardrobe selection”. For everybody's convenience, we've meet again on line, making sure the personal comfort was not overlooked. Our gathering was really pleasant, cozy, fun and nicely engaging (like good friends talks about subjects of common interest)


To everybody’s delight, this time I've invited 2 very interesting guest speakers, who have a lot to say on the chosen notions and who are very dear to me:
 Mihai S. (here is his website: Mike Consulting) who explained us from a medical perspective, the connection between femininity and our health (because there is a very well-defined one) and how each woman could proceed to keep a functional balance between them in daily life
Magda Bitoiu, (here is her face-book account, Magda Andrei Bitoiu & her Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/magda_trueliving) who shared with us her extensive experience explaining the following:  how we can identify our clothing style and the outfit that best benefits us depending on the body shape we each have; how we can choose the most suitable clothes for us while staying within a reasonable budget, and how we can make a clothing capsule, depending on the season.  

As I usually do, prior to our meeting, I gave my confirmed guests few reading materials about these concepts, in order to spice up even more the group conversation, while adding more depth to personal perspectives.
Needless to say that my special guests of the evening were absolutely amazing, both delivering extremely interesting presentations, while offering many important details that we each could benefit from in our daily lives.

By now, most of you know that in my public briefings the confidentially of the personal matters discussed is paramount, but because I truly believe in sharing the knowledge far and wide, here are few key concepts of general interest that might be of some sort of assistance to you…
- It is important to be aware that some actions in life might destroy your femininity....consciously avoid them
- Healthy femininity is characterized by few of the following traits: ground-ness, receptivity, reflectiveness, clear boundaries and gracious strength
- For women it is important to do whatever they each have to do with satisfaction, because passion and joy could be truly uplifting and rejuvenating at once
- Femininity completely disappears when women engage in conflicts, and mind you, the subsequent stress inflicted upon yourself it is very damaging
- Fashion in clothing is not necessarily the care for the correctness of clothes, taste and attitude; fashion is an "outfit", it is a "style"
- The fashion of an active woman is the fashion of coordinated elements: harmony of form, style and colors, simplicity, naturalness, poise, grace and intelligence
- Personal charm and elegance are always above the trends of fashion.

The group discussion of the evening were truly warm, inspiring, deeply pleasing, as well as heart and mind nourishing, facts which again made us all completely forget the time, of course, in a flattering manner. As a wise person said once upon a time, "In learning one will teach, and in teaching one will learn". 
Now, I'm concluding my briefing here, yet again extending my sincere appreciation to my dear friends who honored my invitation, wishing them only the best!
Warm regards,
Alice
“Women forget how much we can inspire one another. No one understands us like us.”

September 21, 2023: INTERNATIONAL PEACE Day

Every year, on September 21st, the entire world unites to celebrate International Peace Day. This day serves as a global reminder of the importance of peace & the value of non-violence. Established by the UN General Assembly in 1981, it has since become an annual observance dedicated to promoting peace across borders.
The theme of 2023 is “Actions for Peace: Our Ambition for Global Goals.”…
Let’s continue to give PEACE a chance!
"Peace is a daily, a weekly, a monthly process, gradually changing opinions, slowly eroding old barriers, quietly building new structures."
(President John F. Kennedy)
● My previous greetings on the same theme: PEACE Day – 2022, 2021